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Emotions That Sell: How Emotional Carryover Influences Sales Results and Organisational Culture

  • Writer: Niko Verheulpen
    Niko Verheulpen
  • 6 days ago
  • 8 min read
Illustration of emotional ripple effect in the workplace: A stone dropped in water creates waves that transform into faces, each reflecting carryover emotions — symbolising how feelings spread through teams and sales interactions.
One emotion. Endless consequences. What ripples are your team creating?
  1. Happy Salespeople Sell — But It Runs Deeper Than That


Mark walks into his client call with a quiet glow of confidence. He’s just had a win: a great conversation with his manager, a thank-you email from a customer, and a moment of being genuinely seen. The client senses his clarity and openness. The conversation flows, trust builds, and the deal progresses.


This is an example of emotional carryover — the phenomenon where emotions extend beyond their original context. They linger, accumulate, and influence how people show up to their work, their colleagues, and their decisions.


Positive energy fuels performance when it is grounded in real experience.

And emotion that remains unprocessed tends to persist. It shows up in tone, in reaction, in judgement. It continues to shape how people engage.


While positive emotion can amplify clarity and connection, its unprocessed counterpart—resentment—tends to linger, silent and sharp.


87% of teams ignore emotional ripples. The other 13% outsell them.


  1. The Psychology of Residue: How and Why Emotions Persist


Emotions do not simply vanish when circumstances change. They leave a trace that may remain long after the event that triggered them has passed.

In organisational life, this residue quietly but persistently shapes how people interpret their environment and respond to others.


Short-lived emotional states, such as satisfaction, irritation, or encouragement, tend to resolve within hours. However, they can still colour tone, decisions, and engagement across the day. A moment of appreciation might unlock a more confident sales call. A dismissive glance in a meeting might lead to cautious contributions in the next one.


When emotional experiences remain unresolved, particularly when linked to perceived injustice, ambiguity, or power imbalance, they persist more forcefully.


This persistence is reinforced by what researchers have termed affective inertia (Kuppens), where emotional states continue over time and across situations. The mechanism of rumination (Nolen-Hoeksema) deepens the impact, as individuals mentally revisit and replay emotionally charged experiences, often without resolution.


These patterns are not isolated to memory. Emotional priming (Lerner & Keltner) illustrates how a previous emotional experience can shape perception and decision-making in future, unrelated contexts.


For example, a colleague’s silence might be interpreted as disapproval, not because of what they are doing in the present, but because of an emotional association formed earlier.


Recent studies reinforce the significance of these patterns. Newer research into workplace embitterment and daily affect reveals how even seemingly small experiences of unfairness or misalignment can predict prolonged emotional rumination and detachment. These emotional states often carry physiological markers as well, such as lowered heart-rate variability, indicating that the body, too, is holding the emotional residue.


Perhaps the most delicate aspect of emotional carryover is how easily it is reignited. Once a person has experienced an emotionally difficult situation, even subtle cues — a phrase, a delay in response, a certain expression — can trigger that emotion again. The brain draws connections and reactivates emotional states that, on the surface, may appear unrelated to the new context.


For instance, an employee who felt dismissed in a previous performance review may interpret a manager’s brief comment as a renewed sign of disapproval.


What unspoken emotion might be shaping your last team meeting?


  1. How Emotional Carryover Shapes Collective Atmosphere


Emotional carryover extends beyond individual experience. In team settings, emotion moves through groups. One person’s emotional state, especially if they hold authority or informal influence, can shift the tone of an entire room.


A calm presence often brings grounding. A tense arrival can send a group into silent vigilance. Emotional energy, once established, becomes an atmospheric signal: it cues others on how to behave, how much to say, and whether openness is welcome.


For example, when a project lead enters a meeting visibly agitated, team members may hesitate to voice uncertainties or creative ideas. Conversely, when a leader expresses openness and calm, it creates a safer space for others to contribute. These moments set the tone and slowly define what becomes culturally acceptable.


Sales professionals are equally affected. A purchasing director who enters a negotiation room with visible impatience or guardedness can unsettle even seasoned salespeople. Subtle cues—a clipped tone, a long pause before replying—can shift the emotional state of the interaction, often without anyone explicitly acknowledging it.


Salespeople, like internal team members, absorb this emotional context and may become more cautious, reactive, or deferential, even when their preparation is solid. Over time, these patterns influence not only the outcome of single meetings but also the emotional posture sales teams bring to future engagements.


  1. How Organisations Typically Respond


In response to growing awareness of emotional well-being, many organisations have introduced tools and rituals to support emotional health.

These include structured check-ins, micro-moments of appreciation, emotional intelligence training programmes, and data-driven approaches to track sentiment.


These tools can be meaningful, but their effectiveness depends on how they are introduced and supported. Without thoughtful integration, they may risk becoming another layer of compliance rather than genuine engagement.


  1. The Complexity of Emotional Safety


A structured check-in might open a space for sharing, but if that space does not feel safe, people will not share honestly. When individuals believe there is a preferred emotional response — optimism, confidence, motivation — then deviation from that norm becomes risky. They adapt. They comply. They protect themselves.


Preferred emotional responses often reflect a culture of surface-level positivity, where discomfort is masked or sidelined in favour of appearing motivated and upbeat.

In these moments, the emotional truth is replaced by performance. The question remains unanswered, or is answered only partially, and the residue accumulates.


A manager might open a meeting with a sincere "How's everyone doing today?" and receive a round of polite affirmations. What remains invisible is the tension from last week’s tight deadline, or the fatigue from carrying unresolved issues. These are the emotional realities that do not vanish simply because the project closed.


  1. The Risks of Well-Meant Interventions


Support rituals can become counterproductive when emotional context is not taken into account. A compliment delivered by someone with whom trust is fragile might not reassure. It might emphasise the distance.


Recognition can highlight hierarchy if the recipient feels unseen outside of those moments. Toolkits for empathy or emotion regulation, when offered without time or real support, may come across as burdensome. They risk signalling that the emotional load is a personal problem to fix, rather than a shared dynamic to understand.


The same risk applies to emotional intelligence training programmes. When presented as a one-off event—especially through brief online formats—they may impart knowledge but fail to translate into genuine change.


A team member might attend their second emotional intelligence webinar, nod politely, and then close their laptop feeling more isolated than before. 


People return to their work environment without the support, space, or guidance necessary to integrate what they have learned.


Over time, this can lead to internal conflict: individuals feel they ought to be applying the techniques, and when they cannot, they may question their own emotional competence. This dynamic can increase strain rather than reduce it.


Psychologically, this resembles a pattern known as internalised failure attribution — where individuals assume that the inability to implement emotional regulation strategies reflects a personal flaw, rather than recognising a systemic absence of support. Hochschild’s concept of emotional labour helps explain the underlying cost: when surface acting becomes the norm, the emotional toll deepens.


  1. Cultural Signals in Plain SightCultural Signals in Plain Sight


While emotional realities are often hidden within organisations, they appear elsewhere. Online platforms such as LinkedIn are increasingly used to express professional emotional experience. Posts about burnout, boundary-setting, or leaving a job in search of alignment consistently receive high engagement.


These posts reflect themes many employees do not feel safe voicing internally. The emotional landscape is present, but the perceived risk of expressing it within formal channels pushes it outward. For leaders and decision-makers, this public emotional data is not anecdotal. It is diagnostic.


  1. A Grounded, Sustainable Response


The goal is not to increase emotional visibility for its own sake, but to ensure organisations are equipped to respond when it does emerge.


Several approaches show promise:


  • Facilitated safe spaces with external coaches or neutral third parties offer psychological distance and permission for candour.

  • Emotionally literate observers inside the organisation — HR professionals, senior leaders, or trained team leads — can listen for what is being said, and what is not.

  • Permission for emotional truth, even when uncomfortable, must be woven into cultural norms and reinforced through behaviour.

  • Support rituals should be context-sensitive and integrated into the rhythm of work, rather than overlaid as separate initiatives.


For example, a monthly reflective session co-facilitated by an external coach can provide a safer space for teams to name what they’re carrying. One-on-one conversations with external coaches can also provide neutral ground, particularly for individuals navigating emotionally loaded dynamics or roles. 


These personalised moments allow for deeper reflection and often surface insights that would remain unspoken in internal conversations.


Equally, externally facilitated training programmes that focus on topics like sales or customer service offer a discreet yet powerful opportunity to introduce these emotional mechanisms. When the focus is on how emotional signals influence buyer behaviour or client relationships, participants often recognise similar dynamics in themselves — without needing to name internal organisational challenges directly.


These discussions foster both performance insight and personal awareness, precisely because they are anchored in real work scenarios. The result is a safer, more integrated way to build emotional agility while strengthening client-facing capability.


What cues might you be overlooking in your team's emotional climate?


  1. Creating Conditions for Emotional Energy to Flow


Emotional carryover shapes the flow of energy in every organisation. It influences whether people speak with conviction, hold back, push forward, or disconnect. What people carry becomes part of what they create.


When that emotional energy is acknowledged and metabolised, it can be a resource: a driver of insight, connection, and trust. When it is ignored or managed only on the surface, it becomes weight. Over time, that weight reshapes teams and cultures, often in ways that are hard to trace, but deeply felt.


Organisations that learn to read and respond to emotional residue do more than improve wellbeing. They build capacity for resilience, coherence, and shared direction.


For sales and customer service professionals, this becomes a daily reality. These roles sit at the intersection of internal dynamics and external perception. The emotional residue from internal meetings, unresolved frustrations, or undercurrent tensions can influence tone and confidence in customer interactions.


Likewise, emotionally charged cues from customers or prospects—such as urgency, scepticism, or dominance—can impact how frontline professionals respond, often beneath conscious awareness.


Safe spaces and reflective support help these professionals not only process internal triggers but also recognise external signals with greater clarity.


They learn to separate the emotional energy of the moment from their own state, making room for more centred, confident engagement.


This skill is equally valuable for middle management, who often sit at the fulcrum of cascading emotion and operational responsibility.

Embedding this awareness into practice—rather than simply training it—creates teams that are not just emotionally intelligent, but emotionally agile.


Final Thought


Emotion enters with every person each day.

It accumulates, carries over, and speaks through behaviour, tone, and engagement.


When organisations become fluent in its rhythms, they unlock more than resilience. They unlock readiness.


What if emotional residue isn’t a weight to manage, but a signal waiting to be heard?


This article draws on insights from: 


• Kuppens, P. et al. on affective inertia and emotional state persistence • Nolen-Hoeksema, S. on rumination and emotional processing • Lerner, J. & Keltner, D. on emotional priming and decision-making • Barsade, S. on emotional contagion in teams • Wessel, M. et al. (2022) on daily embitterment and emotional detachment in the workplace • Weigelt, O. & Syrek, C. (2022) on rumination, need frustration, and psychological detachment • Vahle-Hinz, T. & Kühnel, J. (2023) on workload and affective carryover • Kinnunen, U. et al. (2024) on emotional load, burnout risk, and self-regulation at work • Cederström, C. (2018) on toxic positivity and motivational culture • Hochschild, A. on emotional labour and the costs of surface acting

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